Change is a personal thing…
It is done ALONE.
The world sells you the idea of support and all that jazz but in the end
it is about whether or not you LOVE yourself ENOUGH to make the change.
And until then…NOTHING will help you.
Back rubbing…people doing the wave…a marching band…
None of it.
But when you ARE ready…
The WHOLE WORLD will cheer…
WHY???
Cause self love may very well be the greatest mystery there is.
And when they see you loving yourself they can not help but scream and sing your song.
TRY IT and you will see.
It’s all in YOUR time and in YOUR hands.
Gregory smith says
I agree with what you are saying . People only change to a certain extent. And in reality it all based on what each individual values. If you can’t appeal to a persons value system no change will occur.
Jacs Henderson says
Thanks Diane, I really feel that, change has to be from the heart, and I remember the moment you set me on that path – I treasure that weekend and one day will make you sing 🙂
Love that you’re writing on your blog xxx
Jacs
Ron West says
Hi Diane, Boy, (or should that be ‘young lady!’)you really do make me sit up and think! I have never thought about it like that! Now you have stirred up the ‘old’ brain cells, it does remind me why I was so popular as an ‘able bodied’ person… When I started on this journey into the world of “not being able to do the ‘simple’ things in life any more”, I did lose confidence and faith in my abilities, and the business that I loved to conduct and the joy it gave me, started to ‘wane’, so did my world around ME too. It became the road to disaster, and the ‘why me’ syndrome too…. Thanks to you and just 20 mins of your valuable input, (1 month ago at K&W UK) I have come to realize, it WAS in my head! and it was done for a reason too! Your words and teaching, have lead me back, to believing in myself again, and I am once again, able to love & enjoy my ‘passion’ of ‘showing others how’, I thought I had lost. I am now able to see the ‘little signs’ from many of the comments left for me, where I can help and teach others, to use their unique talents to build & enjoy the life they each deserve. People are appearing now and asking me! for help .. I believe you call that, Attraction Marketing! Thank you for believing in ME. It has made such a difference! Kind regards Ron p.s. I just love your ‘Mindset in the Morning’ calls, they are the best wake up calls EVER!
Olga says
Diane, that is absolutely true! I am the one who was not ready to change not so long ago. Now with your help in our AMI course, and in TUG now – more and more realizing on my own weaknesses and not a right mindset that was holding me back. Great post as usual, thank you